There is a famous saying, “educate a man, you educate one person, educate a woman, you educate a complete family” but how many of us really believes in it? It is been confirmed by reports that more than 50 percent of girls in India fail to enroll in school and those who do are likely to drop out by the age of 12.

Lack of education and illiteracy in girls denies them to have good knowledge and skills needed for enhancing their status in society. Educating girl child helps in realizing her hidden potential, gives her freedom to think, act, question and judge world smartly and independently. Imparting education to girls makes them wise decision maker, teaches civic sense and help them to lead a respectful life.

Educating girl child is never wastage of money or resources instead it is a better investment for parents as once girls get employed, they will think of their parents before boys who will think of their own family first. Educated girls have better knowledge about health and hygiene in homes which improves families as they know what to do and how to do.

Denying education to girl child means destroying her talents. It has been seen that number of girls has been successful and helpful to communities and if good education is imparted to them, they can become good leaders who are more development oriented than men.

Various studies have confirmed that illiterate women have high levels of maternal mortality, low earning potential and poor nutritional status. Remember that if you want your community to grow and develop, avoid leaving section of girls behind in terms of education. We need all groups of society well-educated for proper development of nation. Girls should be taken as boys and women should be handled at par with men.

Looking for some 'Slogans' for the campaign of "Save Girl Child"? Here are some Slogans you might like and if you have some great slogans which can be used to save girl child, Must share.

Don’t let their lives end before it even begins

Girls are the one that becomes mother one day, she is the daughter, she is the sister, she is the wife, she is the one that gives a new think to the culture, she is the one that knots the whole family together. A baby girl is an angel to the family not a sin, don't end her life before it begins, let her live and enjoy the happy moments of life.

Man Thinks He Is HERO But Without 'Her' He Is (O), Zero.

As the slogan depicts it has such a great meaning behind its creation that a man thinks his whole life that he is Hero, he can do any thing of his own will and he will never be crushed by anyone or objected by everyone. But it is true that when he gets sad it will only be a girl that will make her feel comfortable and it will make him again feel joyful. So without a girl in her life he is none less than zero. A girl gives meaning to his life by making him feel warmth of love.

No girl – so, no mother – ultimately no life.

Right saying that our mother is also girl and if she will not be there then we will also be not here at the present time. She has given birth to us through how much pain and if we kill the girl child then it will also kill the life of our future successors.

Girls are pearls, save them.

Girls are like pearls that are most precious jewels in the whole oceans found by some people and they get much luck through them. In the same way girls are like pearls they are blessed to some people and whom they are blessed with brings luck to them. So Save Girl Child Don't Kill Them!!

Indian Society turns out to be the most unsafe place for girls

Girl, a Mother, Sister, Wife, Grand Mother, Daughter and many other relation she is having all over world. Everyone knows that she is the root of human being still no body cares! Why? 

Basically, the countries which are affected with low ratio of girls are Asian Countries. So they really don't know the importance of Girl? Why they just hope for a boy child and not for a girl? After all for a young boy they will require a girl to married the with and if the scene will go continue killing girl child then how it will be possible to find a girl? There are several other question too, you might never think of or may be you thought about.

* Without a Girl we can't imagine the next generation as she is the root of human being. Without her you can expect a son or a happy life. She cares about you and be with you whenever you need. So she is precious gift of god, respect her.

* A Girl is very respectable in India, people worship her as Devi (Angel). She is the all in all to grow a family and manipulate her family. She respect her parents and care her husband.
* She is the mother of all Sons and daughter and if a girl being killed while birth, How can someone expect to get a son further if there is no girl? Wish for a son is not bad but killing a girl for a son is not worth! If every one will do the same then with whom your son will marry?
lot's of other thing that people already know but they don't wanna face the fact and  for a boy child, girl child still killing. As the result count of girls in India is very less. So everyone need to think about this which will soon become a  BIG problem. Save girl child and contribute in the development of nation and the world as would become nothingness without a woman.

Can you divorce without causing distress for the children?

It’s a sad fact that when couples separate or divorce they are usually very angry and unhappy and therefore not quite in their right minds.


All the evidence suggests that if a divorce is handled calmly it’s better for the children and for the health of your next relationship. But all too often, people are so full of blame and the need for retribution that they rush to a lawyer in the hope that they can win.
Nobody wins in divorce. Handing decisions over your finances and childcare arrangements to a judge who doesn’t know you is not necessarily in your best interests.
But what Mediation can do is help everybody lose less, and, importantly, to minimise distress for the children. Instead of going to separate lawyers who have a tendency to crank up the acrimony and the cost, couples in Mediation settle and sort out their future co-parenting relationship together, in the same room with a mediator. It’s quicker and cheaper and research shows that these agreements are more likely to last because they are self determined.


Mediation helps couples to have the all important conversations about the end of their relationship, which can help them to move on. It’s not counselling or therapy but it can be therapeutic. Mediators can see the children in a separate meeting to establish whether there are concerns and messages which they would like to pass back to their parents but are too afraid to voice in case they make things worse.


And mediators can help parents do their best by their children through this difficult time with tactics which will help to minimise their distress. As I find myself saying so often to couples at this terrible time: ‘Your relationship may be over but your relationship as co-parents will go on for the rest of your lives. And you have the opportunity now to make that experience as good as it can possibly be for your children.’


Mediation is increasingly becoming the norm for separating couples. It works in roughly 80% of cases. Mediators take couples by the hand and lead them from an emotionally complicated place to a better future, as two separate individuals. And perhaps more importantly, if and when things break down, with arguments or concerns over their children in the years to come, separated parents know they have somewhere safe to go to resolve their differences.

The Love of Gods creation - Mother and Child

"This is scaremongering, as well as being both unfair, unhelpful and divisive for couples. Parents carry enough anxiety and guilt around separation as it is. Why on earth would we want to add to it?"

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The irony is, she adds, that studies show that if anything's going to cause harm to the offspring of separated parents, it's conflict – and to say that children can't spend a night at their dad's can only create conflict.

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The second most important factor that can damage children following divorce or separation, according to research, is lack of access to the non-resident parent, she says. "Again, this ban would only add to this lack of access."

For Ian Ashford, Leach's comments will be yet another reason for his wife to try and deny him access to their 13-month-old daughter, he says.

"We both love our daughter and she's attached to both of us, but my ex-wife seems to want me out of the picture altogether and she'll be rubbing her hands together at this. I have a friend in a similar situation."

Leach's comments are a bit like saying that a mother should never go out and allow Dad to put the children to bed, concludes Elizabeth O'Shea, a parenting specialist who runs parenting courses in deprived areas of London.

"In my opinion, if parents separate, the earlier a child can get used to staying with both Mum and Dad, the better. In fact, I truly believe that it is psychologically damaging to refuse to allow a child to have overnight stays with him."

Children need to be allowed to have a childhood, free from having to choose between their parents, she argues. "Children are adaptable."

But Nick Woodhall, author and practitioner at The Family Separation Clinic, believes it's not that black and white.

"I actually think it's quite a good thing that Leach has drawn attention to the impact on children of having to spend time in two homes because it can be tiring for children to move around every few days," he says.

"Research shows that even with tiny infants, even a change in washing powder can be disruptive because the house smells different."

But it doesn't follow that kids should never get to have sleepovers at their dads, he insists.

"There are good reasons for it to happen. It's just that kids sometimes need help with managing the shift from one household to another. If we can take anything from this, I think it should be focusing on this middle ground."

Do grandmothers prefer their daughters' offspring to their sons'? It's a controversial question but one that a large number of mothers would answer yes to.

Take mum-of-one, Emma. She was in such pain after the complicated delivery of her daughter that she couldn't even sit down comfortably. With her husband back at work within a week and her parents working full time, she was confident her retired in-laws would support her.

After all, when her husband's sister became a mum, Emma's mother-in-law had cooked her meals, helped with housework and offered emotional support, so Emma was hopeful of the same.

However, after their initial visit to the maternity ward, her in-laws went away for 10 days on a last-minute holiday.

"I couldn't believe it," she says.

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I always thought we had a really close relationship and here they were with a new grandchild they didn't want to see and a daughter-in-law who was an emotional and physical mess. They would never have left their own daughter like that.

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Four years later, she notices her mother-in-law making a beeline for her daughter's child, rather then hers, at family gatherings. "I genuinely feel mothers prefer their daughters' children to their sons'," she says.

Jane, a mum of two, agrees. Her in-laws provide childcare for their daughter's children so that both parents can work – but they don't do the same for their son's children.

"Admittedly, my sister-in-law lives around the corner from them, and we're a 15 minute drive away, but it's only 15 minutes, and it means we have to pay for childcare and they don't."

Psychologist Professor Peter Smith, of London's Goldsmiths University, agrees that while grandparents generally say they are equally close to all grandchildren, research shows they are, in fact, closer to their daughters' children than their sons'.

He offers two reasons. "The first is that mothers tend to be closer to their daughters and the second is that of paternity," he says.

"Certainly they can be sure that their daughters' children are theirs, but they can't be quite so sure with their sons' children. They may not be consciously aware that this is an issue but it factors in research studies."

Mother-of-one Natalie thinks it's because sons often place less importance on the involvement of the extended family. Admittedly, she lives in the same town as her parents, whereas her brother and family live two hours away, but she also makes sure her parents know what is going on in her son's life with regular phone calls and messages.

"My parents have more of a connection with my son simply because they see him more and importantly get to hear about what is happening in his life very regularly. It's not that they love their granddaughter any less but there is that distance there, both geographically and, in a sad way, emotionally because there isn't that constant steam of information."

Sue, a mother of three and a grandmother of four, says she loves her grandchildren equally but is closer to her daughter's children because she cares for them two days a week, whereas her son's children are cared for by their maternal grandmother.

"My son is very conscious that I'm so close to his sister's children," she says. "He makes sure I don't give more attention to my daughter's children than his. Because I see such a lot of them, he feels his children are pushed into the background – but they are not at all.

"When I started minding my daughter's children, I told him I was only doing for my daughter what his mother-in-law is doing for her daughter."

Perhaps mums are guilty of excluding their mothers-in-law in favour of their own mums. Maria, mum of two boys, says, "I definitely prefer my parents to my husband's, and naturally have a closer relationship with them

"I speak to my mum every day whereas he speaks to his mum once a week and so as a result mine are more involved."

Both sets of grandparents live two hours away in the same town, yet when Maria and her family visit, she insists on staying with her parents because that is where she is more comfortable.

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Wanting to replicate our parents' parenting methods could mean we turn more to mothers than mothers-in-law.

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Indeed, a recent study by Pampers found that six in 10 women turn to their own mother for advice on getting baby to sleep.

As Maria says, "It helps that my mum is a health visitor and breast feeding counsellor, and breast-fed me and my brothers so has influenced me and is very supportive of the parenting choices I've made.

"My husband's mum is more old fashioned and bottle fed him and I often feel she thinks I'm a bit odd with my home birth, cloth nappies, breast feeding and baby-led-weaning."

And it's not just grandmothers who seemingly show preferences. Lucy, mother to one son and one daughter, wonders if grandfathers prefer grandsons. "I have got embarrassed in the past as my dad dotes on my son and gets told by my mum when we are all together to give more attention to the other grandchildren," she says.

Mum of two Kate adds, "My brother is definitely my paternal grandfather's favourite. Perhaps it's because he was the first grandson after three granddaughters; the first guaranteed to carry on the family name."

Despite her sons being just three years old and six months, Maria admits to already worrying about being a grandmother. "I worry that when my sons have children I might end up being excluded as the paternal grandmother. I know it doesn't always work that way and often depends on distance and location, but it's crossed my mind. Although I've always wanted three children I guess part of me is hoping number three will be a girl."

Do you think you pull your mother in and push your mother-in-law out when it comes to the children?